jeba wrote: ↑Mon May 15, 2017 10:44 pm
PhotoLady wrote: ↑Mon May 15, 2017 9:29 pm
My opinion is there should only be a child benefit paid for the very first child - and that's it.
Do you think that will increase the birth rate?
Well no, but are you sure the current system increases the birth rate in a way that is practical or socially desirable?
The ability of young women to effectively 'marry the state' and start a family with the DSS as father has massive financial costs, as some posters have previously stated, but I think the major cost is that to the future of the state and, more importantly, the children who are the victims of the 'revenue generation' scheme of their parent[s]
It appears to me there is a huge swathe of children in the UK at the moment where children from quite large single parent families [just for clarity, I'm using the term 'single parent families in the sociological sense as in children who have only even known one parent, rather than children from families originally having two parents, who have subsequently separated], where the [usually] mothers, in emotional and educational terms barely more than children themselves, have effectively abrogated any parental responsibility with the State as family breadwinner, and the child's teacher effectively takes over all of the other duties, including just general socialization.
This in turn puts an intolerable burden on the teachers. I personally know of teachers in inner city schools purchasing food with their own money to feed children whose parents have other priorities, and even more worryingly come parents evening, having previously suggested ways that the parent might help in their childs own education, faced with an incandescent mother, often with latest boyfriend in tow to provide the requisite muscle, reminding the teacher that educating and socializing the child is entirely the teachers problem, and all too often back this opinion up with threats of violence.
To be a good teacher in an inner city school nowadays requires a heart of gold, nerves of steel and requirement for absolutely no recognition of the job they do, or the pressure put on them by feckless parents.
And what chance do the children stand? Just to repeat the experience of their mother or absentee father?
Photolady's suggestion may seem a little harsh, but it seems to me to be a much more positive suggestion than the status quo.
I personally would be campaigning [were I still resident in the UK] where the level of benefit payment for children was fixed at the number of children present when the claimant entered the benefit system, to ensure the protection of children from two parent families who have fallen on hard times, or separated.